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After wrapping up my encounters, I’ve come up with a list: The 5 types of white guys you will date as a black girl. I told you, he doesn’t see colour, that’s it, it’s done. If you’ve done any research or studies in social issues, or if you’ve ever listened to a person of colour talk, you would know that colour blindness is not the solution to anything.
On the contrary, it actually makes people of colour feel invalidated in their experiences and we don’t need that at all, mostly not in our romantic relationships.
He might make you feel special for a few seconds, but the key point here is that he will replace you in a heartbeat if a lighter girl comes around.
You are an exception because in his mind, black women are unattractive.
Boy, I have looked on the top of my fridge, under my bed and inside my container of shea butter and I have not found the moment when I asked for your opinion so why are you here.
Finally, the most evident red flag is that he usually talks bad of other women, saying that white women are this and that latina women are that, etc... Girls need to stand together, and you can’t let Jimmy get in between you and your sisters. He learned about your reality and he thinks you’re really cute. This dude was probably a type two when you met him, but you gave him a chance and he’s not so bad.
You already see yourself having two mixed babies (Jayden and Noah, obvi), going on camping trips and binge-watching Lord of the Rings as a family activity even though you have no effin’ clue what these movies are about. They are not charity cases and you don’t have to prove you’re nice and attractive. Mostly after mentioning type two, this might seem like an improvement but not really.
Jake is not a broken toy that you should fix, you’re busy and deserve better. After many Tinder matches, after many cringes at parties and a lot of dm's left on read, you finally found him. He tells you you look great in bright colours and that your hair is cute, mostly when it’s a little frizzy.He’s funny and respectful but once again, just with you.He says weird stuff about black men and other people of colour that hurt your ears because well...they’re kinda racist.This type of white dude usually slides into your dm's because he saw your selfie captioned #Black Girl Magic on Instagram and was digging it.It is flattering to be complimented on the skin you have learned to love through years and years of self-hate, believe me, I’ve been there.